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We talk a lot about habits, especially morning rituals. What we do each day to start it off on the right foot.

Getting up early is my saving grace. The quiet of the morning is one of the most magical times of the day and sets the tone for the day.

I’ve felt very on top of my morning game for years now. It’s my time to shine.

That is … until I had two good friends, who also happen to be VFit trainers over last month.

What follows is a simple story about how my morning coffee ritual brought me to one of the most powerful mantra’s I now repeat several times a day and how my support system gave me a very powerful lesson.

My morning ritual actually begins the night before: I lay out my workout clothes, get my water cup out and set my coffee maker up to brew a fresh pot of coffee as soon as I am up at 5:30am. I always brew a near full pot of coffee as a security blanket (I’ve got 3 young kids and a puppy, you NEVER know how nightime will go!), but there is almost always at least 1/2 pot left by day’s end.

VFit Trainer Janelle – thank you for this lesson!

So there I am, hanging out with VFit trainers Janelle and Lauren a few weeks ago, chatting with them in the kitchen as I get my “stuff’ set for the next morning.

I skipped the getting the fresh pot of coffee ready part and they asked me why?

I replied, “Oh there is enough old coffee left, I’ll just reheat it in the morning, it’s easier and that way I don’t waste anything.”

To which they both gasped and asked, “Does it taste good reheated?!?”

We all know the answer to that, no way! It tastes like burnt day old coffee.

“WHY ARE YOU DOING?!” asked Janelle.

“You deserve a fresh cup of yummy hot coffee EVERY DAY! You do everything for everyone,” added Lauren. “

“Rachele, YOU DESERVE IT”, they both shouted at me.

VFit Trainer Lauren – I’ll always remember this morning thank you!

It sounded amazing to have a fresh, hot cup of coffee each day! Extra work, yes. Maybe a bit extravagant since I already had coffee in the house that I already made, ableit very old, but still – it was there.

And so for the next few minutes my good friends gave me a very powerful lesson that I’ll never forget.

YOU deserve fresh coffee if it makes you happy.

Now I know what you are all thinking! Buy a keurig, make less coffee each day, what on earth does coffee have to do with a fitness blog, I can go on!

But I share, because this lesson really hit me hard.

By changing the script in my head from “this is more work”, “it’s easier if I just….”, to “I DESERVE THIS!” changed my entire outlook from that day forward.

Say it! Say those 3 power words next time something feels like a chore or like you aren’t worth the extra effort.

I promise it will empower you and take you from a feeling of “I have to”, to “I get to”. And when something feels like a reward, you will do what it takes to keep those rewards coming, because you do deserve it!

For you, maybe it’s something like taking a daily shower, getting outside on a walk every day, or taking time out of the day to exercise.

What is your ‘fresh pot of coffee’ that you deserve that you’ve been neglecting?

Even if it’s a little extra time and effort, if it’s something that fills you up and will make you feel good – give yourself the license and grace to do it for yourself.

Then savor it. Enjoy it. Know you deserve it and are worthy of it.

What is your ‘fresh pot of coffee’ you’ll give yourself today?

Share below in comments once you do it and let us know how it feels.

Give yourself the gift of a time-out.

I’m not sure why kids dislike time-outs and naps. LOL! In my world these are activities to be savored like fine wine and expensive chocolate.

The following video is about 10 minutes. Tell your family that you need a ten minute time-out and enjoy a mild upper body stretch along with a mental break.

You can always lock yourself in the bathroom and put on headphones if needed.

DON’T forget to lock the door—they will find you. No worries though, the headphones will drown out their cries.

Just kidding. Sort of?

About Shari

Shari is VFit’s resident miracle worker from Texas! She leads an “Unwind” class, unlike anything you’ve ever experienced. But don’t let her zen like ways fool you. She can deliver just as Yang of a high intensity class and leave your muscles “good” sore for days to come.

“Born and raised in Texas, I was a competitive gymnast in grade school and went on to be a competitive twirler in High School.

I attended college at The University of Texas in Austin, majoring in English and Kinesiology.

Having always had a love for physical fitness, I taught group fitness throughout college, and upon graduating was hired to teach public school.With the demands of a new job and a new husband, exercise became my time to unwind.

With my 3 children now in school, I returned to my first career as a group exercise instructor.

Yoga is one of my favorite styles to teach because it has something for everyone. It is healing and strengthening all in one. It truly is the complete package.

When not in the gym teaching, I enjoying spending time outdoors hiking and exploring with my husband and 3 children.

We are avid travelers who enjoy each new adventure that we encounter. All three of my children are very active in competitive sports.”

Favorite Fitness Quote: “Fitness is a journey not a destination”

Credentials:

RYT 500 Yoga Therapist
ACSM CPT
Senior Fit Specialist

Mobility Specialist

Yin Yoga Specialist

Repeat After Me “I DESERVE THIS!” -What is Your Fresh Pot of Coffee?

YOU deserve fresh coffee if it makes you happy.

What is your ‘fresh pot of coffee’ you’ll give yourself today?

Take 10 – Take a Time Out